oh so yes, no possible thread but...
simultaneously, all, every, even unknown
never acknowledged beginnings in potential

i whish i could start it allover again
aware of the mistakes and wrong choices
re-
but that is not fair
and there would be no spiritual growth
i learnt through pain, is there any other way?

i was in ny in my dreams... oh i love dreamland!
you were part of it, ff'course and the weirdest:
shooting images was literally done with a gun

bom dia!

whoa
sounds strong
and transformative

i think the easiest way to learn is through "difficulty",
and the easiest way to perceive difficulty is as "pain"

so it's a 2 sided question

some growth just occurs naturally, as one aquires experience or as part of the overall design, but even "physical" growth can involve "growing pains": when one part of the body is not quite ready to accomodate another's growth.

but discomfort/pain is a great motivator: one searches for ways to allieviate it, and by default...
grows

(the trick of course is not to just "get out" of the situation but to understand how you "got in it" in the first place so that you can avoid going back)

in my best moments i try to see this process as a gift
an opportunity to go beyond what i know

and then that process itself is often tough as our skin (physical and/or psyhcic) rubs up against unfamiliar things and we stumble around (and even fall) as we try to find our way

bom dia*

ur so right
in fact not all of us are searchers
nor everyone urges to grow up as we do.

keep within the path, read the signs
and i'tll be allright.

;*